What do many young men today lack that made younger women more
attracted to older men? Most women seek certain things in a
relationship. Financial security, sexual experience, chivalry,
confidence, good communication skills and mystery are things that
some men need years and years to cultivate.

Women also want men who are responsible, who have their priorities
in order, and understand the importance of ambition. Another reason
is that older men go for commitment. An older man has more life
experiences. He has been around longer, and he knows what a young
woman wants. He knows how to give proper attention which is very
important to every woman. He knows how to value her needs and how to
fill them. He listens to what the younger woman has to say. He asks
questions and is interest in what she is saying. An older man
delights long, deep conversations about topics that interest her,
always striving to nurture the mental connection between them. He is
delighted in pleasing her woman. These older men know how women
count on their support and they are more than happy to give their
woman what she needs. He shares his good and bad experiences, wisdom
and knowledge of which in many cases she has encountered only a few.

Most women seek a loving,caring,mature,fatherly figure. They need
security. They need a man who is not afraid to say how he feels,
settle down maybe even marry,and raise a family. Many women feel to
get this they must look for men who are older than their selves. The
older men are many times much more sophisticated, cultured and
gallant than the average young guy. Older men also hold a mystery
that most younger men do not.

A major difference between marrying an older man and marrying a man
her own age is that once an older man marries a younger woman, he
will continue to wine and dine her. He continues to make her feel
like a princess, like a woman, like his only pride and joy. Older
men tend to love deeper and have a better understanding of family,
friends,and love. The younger man on the other hand after marrying,
stops wining and dining and will stop romancing his woman. He
becomes bored and  lazy. He stops doing the little sweet stuff that
he used to do before they were married.  So when a younger woman
marries an older man, it is because in him she has found everything
that was always lacking from her past relationships. She finds
satisfaction on all the levels that matter to her. She has come full
circle, her search is over, she has found Mr. Right for her.

Older men are strong and spontaneous individuals. They are free
wheeling, opinionated, wickedly funny, and sexy. They know how to
love and respect women. They treat women with courtesy and chivalry.
As men grow old, their sex appeal just gets better and better and
women find them hard to resist!